10 Things I am, and 10 Things I am definitely not...

My Flagbook Page : Visual Response of 10 Things I am, and 10 Things I am not...

Working on the project “10 Things I am, and 10 Things I am definitely not...” led me to reflect deeply on myself. I found it difficult to define how I am perceived or how I perceive myself with a single word, as it often depends on the situation and the perspective from which one views me. Curious whether my own self-perception was based on rational judgment, I asked a friend and my husband about 10 things I am, and 10 things I am not.

Interestingly, some of their observations differed from how I see myself. For instance, a friend saw me as patient while I did not consider; I thought I have not enough courage to try, but my friend perceived me as someone with a strong spirit for taking on challenges; and where I saw myself as overly dependent on others, my friend viewed me as an independent, self-directed individual. Through this exercise, I realized that how I am perceived can vary significantly depending on the observer, and that my own traits can shift flexibly according to the situation. Rather than labeling my own personality traits as either positive or negative, I hope that they will evolve flexibly over time and in response to different situations.